We fight over whether to send our kids to public or private schools

Dear Ms Wise, my child is swiftly approaching school age, but my partner and I can’t agree on whether to send him to private or public school. How can we reach an agreement? Jessica.

The wisdom: Fights about money are rarely about money, says Nicole Haddow, the author of a new book called Couple Goals: Building a strong financial future and an even better relationship.